Hello! Welcome!
Haha, no one will yell at you
Are you unable to hear audio from the DT? or is the DT playing when you do not want it to?
If you want to turn sync off on the DT, on the VST there is a drop down in the upper right.
Regarding resources, I highly recommend reading the manuals for the DT and Overbridge.
You can find these on the support page:
https://www.elektron.se/support/?connection=digitakt#resources
This thread lists video tutorials:
There is also lots of good into in this thread:
Best regards,
Gino